Hazards: Untreated stress, isolation and substance use in a high-risk trade · Crew culture that treats asking for help as weakness · Long hours, travel, seasonal layoffs and pain from old injuries · Nobody on the crew knowing where to send a coworker who is struggling
Why it matters
This one is harder to talk about than a guardrail, and it kills more people in our trade. OSHA states that the suicide rate for construction workers is four times higher than in the general population, and points to the things we all recognize: seasonal work, brutal schedules, travel, and pain from old injuries. OSHA also says the part that matters most — like other workplace fatalities, these are preventable, and everyone on this crew has a role in it.
Key points
- Look for change, not for symptoms. Nobody here is diagnosing anyone. A shift in how someone acts, talks or shows up — that is the signal, and OSHA says take it seriously.
- Ask the question: "Are you okay?" Privately, and mean it. Asking someone directly does not put the idea in their head. Saying nothing is the only option that guarantees nothing changes.
- Listen without fixing. OSHA's words: be compassionate, listen without judgment. You are not the counselor, and you do not need the right words.
- Know where to point them. The EAP or member assistance program, HR, or a mental health professional. If you don't know our EAP number, that is today's action item.
- 988 — call, text or chat. The Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7/365, free and confidential, Spanish available, chat at 988lifeline.org/chat. Put it in your phone before the talk ends.
- In a crisis, don't leave. If you believe someone is at immediate risk, stay with them and get help: emergency services or 988. Do not send them home alone and hope.
- Nobody gets a hard time here for saying they're struggling. That is a decision this crew makes out loud, today, and then keeps in the truck and at break.
Do / Don't
Do
- Take somebody aside and ask plainly how they are doing.
- Save 988 and the EAP number in your phone right now.
- Check back in a few days — one conversation is not the job.
- Speak up if a coworker seems off, even if you feel awkward.
Don't
- Diagnose anyone, or give medical or medication advice.
- Promise total secrecy about something that puts someone at risk.
- Leave someone alone when you believe they are in danger.
- Let "toughen up" be the standing answer on this crew.
Quick site check
- Everyone saves 988 in their phone before this talk ends.
- Find our EAP or member assistance number today and post it in the trailer and the break area.
- Agree who on this job is the easy person to go to, and say the name out loud.
- Does anybody here know the number for our EAP or member assistance program without looking it up?
- What does this crew usually say when somebody is having a rough stretch?
- If you noticed a coworker was not himself, what would actually stop you from asking?
- Who on this job is easiest to talk to, and does everyone know that?
- Where could we post 988 so people see it without having to ask?